Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Dear Rebecca

You came into the world on a very rainy fall day--maybe that's why to this day you like rain, but hate the gray skies that so commonly come with it.

You were born into a family of all boys, and grew up almost like an only child--don't feel bad about all the time you spent playing alone--it has made you value friendship very highly.

Don't worry about the fact that you have so much to say.  There will come a time when you will need to speak up for the children in your home who "have no voice of their own."

When you marry young, and some people criticize you for it--take their advice and "think about it", but in the end follow your heart.  Your marriage will be one of the best decisions you ever made.

Don't feel ashamed when your dream of becoming a nurse doesn't work out.  Your life's vocation will include a lot of caring for sick children.

Infertility will take you by surprise and bring you to your knees, but for the rest of your life there will be others walking the same road that you can encourage.

You will stumble and falter at times, but you will pick up the pieces and go on.  You will need to go back and say "I'm sorry", but this will only serve to make you stronger.

When you look at others and are tempted to compare yourself remember "I am fearfully and wonderfully made;"

You are unique, your life has a specific purpose, and no one can fulfill that purpose, but you.

Sometimes we are pretty hard on ourselves.  We look at our past, and our mistakes and we see all the failures.  This idea of writing a kind letter to myself is not original to me.  Go visit here to read Betsy's version of it.


  1. Aww...look at what a cutie you were! SO sweet! :)

    What a beautiful letter! You know, it is so wonderful that couples faced with infertility choose to fill that empty space with children that need a home. I've always thought those parents and the kids were extra special.

    Thanks for doing this! It's a great letter!

  2. Betsy, Thanks!! I was surprised at how much I actually enjoyed writing this letter. :)

  3. Loved so much thid Rebecca, enjoyed this letter and love your baby picture!!
    Love to meet you dear Rebecca!!!

  4. Gloria, thank you--so glad to have you as a friend!!!

  5. Me too! (lol)
    Today all day out Im die walk so mcuh with daugther, I go to the psicologist with her...

  6. A beautiful letter, Rebecca. Wonderfully made is right!

  7. Jennifer, Thank you, I think everyone should write a letter like this to themselves once in a while. :)

  8. Great letter Rebecca! Thanks for sharing!

  9. Claudia, Thank you! So nice to have you visit. :)

  10. I loved your letter, Rebecca! It was really beautiful. I'm still thinking about mine and hope to write it soon.

  11. Denise, Nice to have you stop by! It took me awhile to compose this letter, but it was well worth it!


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