Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Fostering Update

Sugar Pea has a permanency planning hearing coming up on Wednesday.

There are basically three different ways this could go.

The judge could determine that the birth parents are following their case plan and move toward reunification with them.  He could begin the process of terminating both of their parental rights, or he could grant a three month extension, and make a decision then.

This judge tends to be very very cautious in making any decision toward termination of parental rights.  I appreciate his point of view, but from my angle it can get a little frustrating.

The birth parents aren't doing anything toward getting their child back except for showing up for their visits......some of the time.

I'm trying to have the right attitude in all of this--you know--neutral foster parent.  I'm not doing a very good job.

My reason for sharing all of this is to ask you to please, please, pray for this hearing.  There are so many more details that I can't share, but suffice it to say that this case has burned me out.

I'll give you a pregnancy update in a day or two.


  1. praying! :)

    neutral foster parenting...can't imagine that is even possible. ha.

    1. It's not really possible. I always have an opinion about the cases we're involved with, but never have I struggled with being patient with the system like I am this time. I think the pregnancy has a lot to do with it. :) Thank you so much for praying!!!!!!!!!!!

  2. Rebecca, you have my prayers! Difficult stuff but God will be with you and Sugar Pea (love that name).

  3. Best of luck. I'm praying for you, too.

  4. Hi, praying for you...such a TOUGH time. We were there many times YEARS ago...what a roller coaster ride!!!!


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